Conversation King Article 9:

The name and flower bluff
Think you’ve got to be great looking to
get a woman’s attention? Wrong! If you know what to say and do, you can
have any woman dying to be at your side. This is a little devious, but
what’s the harm? Try this: Go up to a woman and ask her, “How’s work,
Susan?” She’ll tell you she’s not Susan. “Oh, you’re not Susan Moore who
works at the Citizens’ Bank?” She’ll say something like, “No, I’m Karen
Miller that works at Landover Real Estate.” Then just say, “Oh, well I’m
Doug Jones (offer to shake hands), and I’m sorry for the mistake.” Smile
and walk away.
In two or three days, send flowers to her
at her work place. Include a card saying, “We just met for a moment, but
I can’t stop thinking about you. Meet me for a drink after work? Doug.”
Include your phone number, too, just in case she wants to call and thank
you before you get in touch with her. And believe me, she’ll want to
thank you. And you’ll score major brownie points because she’ll be
thrilled to get flowers at work – all the other women in the office will
be buzzing around wondering who sent them, and the object of your desire
will be excited by the surprise and by the attention from her
co-workers. Give her a call later that day after you know the flowers
have arrived, and say, “Hi, this is Doug. Remember me, I’m the one at
the dry cleaners (or wherever you met her) who mistook you for Susan
from the bank? Did you get the flowers?” She’ll say yes, tell you
they’re beautiful and unexpected. Say, “I know this is a little crazy,
out of the blue and all, but you just seemed so nice, and I was kicking
myself that I didn’t ask you out before. I know we don’t really know
each other, but I’d like to change that. How about going for that drink
later?”
She may not remember you well, after all,
she only met you for a minute, but man oh man is she ever going to be
flattered! Someone is telling her she’s so hot that after a few seconds
in her presence, he can’t stop thinking about her and is sending
flowers?! Women eat that stuff up, they think flowers are so thoughtful
and romantic! How could she turn down a drink with someone so
thoughtful, someone who made her feel gorgeous? She can’t! Besides,
she’d feel ungrateful if she didn’t at least give you a shot. This is a
piece of cake pick-up technique, and it makes you seem like Prince
Charming! Like taking candy from a baby, fellas, trust me.
If you’ve found this free tip interesting and want to learn more about
exactly how to talk to women and what to say, check out Rachel’s website
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Rachel Davis is the author of
Conversation-King, a guide that teaches men how to attract and seduce
women by mastering the art of verbal communication.
